Who Am I, How Did I Get Here, and Where Am I Going?

My life is not exactly where I thought it would be at this junction in my life. I am considering myself a work in progress and this will feature the journey that I have been embarking on and will see where it leads.

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Bachelors number 26 and 27....will I ever find the one???

I haven't blogged in a long time but there hasn't been too much to write about.  I did have two dates a couple of weeks ago with two different men. Bachelor #26 was very nice but there wasn't a click. We met for dinner and he kind of abruptly ended it pretty early on but we didn't have all that much to talk about anyway besides figuring out that we knew a mutual friend. Bachelor #27 was another nice guy. We met for dinner and had a nice visit. He then asked me to meet him for lunch a couple of days later which went ok too. He ended up telling me later that he didn't know what he wanted and knew that with his work schedule and being a single father with full custody, he knew it wouldn't be fair to continue seeing me.  He was probably a little redneck for me anyway but at least he wasn't a jerk like some of the others.
I know I am trying way too hard to find someone to spend time with and this online thing isn't generating the kind of men that I desire. I know there are nice men out there but they don't seem to be on these online dating sites. I guess they are actually getting out into the world and meeting people in person.  I definitely need to expand my horizons.