Disappointment

Last time I blogged, I wrote that I had met Bachelor #23 and he was so nice and sweet and we really hit it off. I still feel the same way about him but I had some concerns that was holding me back and we have decided to part ways for a while to work through some issues. This is an incredibly sweet man and I do really like him and care for him but he is recently divorced and has some major financial and independence issues that he needs to work through before I could commit to him. We had a long discussion about it and he agreed that he isn't in a good place to be dating right now until he gets his issues resolved.  He has really fallen for me in such a short period of time and even told me that he loves me but I worry that this is a rebound thing for him and I tried to assure him that he doesn't know me well enough to say he loves me and this is probably just infatuation at this point. What I do like about him is the fact that we communicate about what we are feeling and any concerns or joys that we have with or about each other. I haven't been in a relationship before where it was so easy to talk to someone and I think that is what has made us grow so close to each other in such a short period of time. He just has to get to a place in his life where he feels good about himself  because at this point, he said he doesn't feel like he has anything to offer me and he doesn't feel like he is an equal with me. I certainly don't want someone with me who feels inferior in any way and who has doubts about himself because of what I have or what I have achieved in my life. Why do relationships have to be so complicated?